Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Is that all you wanted? Why didn't you just say so?

In the Wizard of Oz, Dorothy just wanted to get back to Kansas. She went through hell and high water to get to the Wizard, and when she finally made her request, the Wizard asked her if that was all she wanted. It wasn't difficult for him to oblige, and if he would have said no, she could have gone on her way. I think the same thing about men. Often times, a man will wine and dine you, buy you gifts, and keep sniffing around, just to get a lil sumthin. If you want to get to know a woman, that's fine. But if you just want the goods--just say so! There are plenty of women that would let a man have his way with her, just because. There is no need for him to mislead her, or believe that he's "gaming" her out of anything--it is what it is. If you want it, and I want to give it to you, it's gonna go down.

I met a guy this weekend. My friend is a bouncer, and I was hanging out with him at his job. He told me that his coworker "E" kept checking me out. I hadn't paid dude any mind, but once I got a good look at him, I said ok...he's cute...I could be interested. My friend had to go handle something somewhere else, so E came and stood at my friends post. I was facebooking on my BB, and he took it out of my hand and put it in my pocket. Of course, smart comments were exchanged, and we started conversing. In convo, I found out this guy was separated, but living with his wife still (smirk), and his 3 kids--12, 15, and 18. We talked a little more, and the conversation kind of fell off. Another guy came over, we started talking about the Federal Government, and since he was buying drinks--we went to the bar. I talked to him for a while until he was getting ready to leave, and then walked back over to where I was, 3 drinks to the good. At that point, I was ready to leave. As I was walking out, "E" asked if I enjoyed my new friend. I was like, what? That was business...and just kind of walked off. So, Monday afternoon I get a text from E. I immediately texted my boy that works with him and asked if he gave E my number-cause I know I didn't give it to him. He said yeah--I said he could (which I didnt remember, but who knows). So, I responded to his text. E asked what I was doing, and I told him. Then, this fool says, "Hey, can you send me a noddy pic". I get a little heated. It's then followed by a text that says "Notty, my bad". At this point, I'm kinda pissed. So I respond, "It's actually naughty-and what I look like sendin a man I just met-who's somebody's husband-naked pictures? U got me fucked up babe". He responds "Ok it was nice talkin to you". I couldnt even respond. That was the most gangsterific thing I've experienced living in MD. No game...no bs...no cut cards--period. Even though I was a little offensded...I could do nothing but respect this man. Granted, dude is 39, and been in the game for years--but you just gotta love that kind of honesty. He should teach a class...that was some reallll G shit...

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